It is okay for your asexuality and/or aromantism to have been caused by or magnified by abuse.
Your identity is still valid.
There is nothing wrong with you.
Allo allies: yes, not all aro/ace people were affected this way by abuse but please stop ignoring those who were.

(Source: anarchoace)

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cultural appropriation is putting fireflies in a jar

and letting them light up your bedroom

as you drift off to sleep.

and when you wake up all the lights have flickered out

but only when you’re older do you realize

you slowly suffocated them so

that you could enjoy their glow.

that just knocked the breath from me

[2/?] ladies on-screen:
Vinette Robinson as Sally Donovan in Sherlock.


teenage girls are reminded constantly by adults (and everyone else) that we’re immature and too young to understand anything but the minute we make a mistake those same adults tell us we’re “old enough to know better” and refuse to help us

(Source: overlypolitebisexual)


Matsuoka Siblings + Expressions

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christmas eve what about christmas adam

happy christmas adam to all men’s rights activists

Please stop pestering us with things like this. This has nothing to do with men fighting for their rights. Eve is short for ‘evening’. Please don’t turn activism into a joke. Thanks.

Someone isn’t having a good christmas adam

Christmas Adam: December 23rd. Comes before Christmas Eve and is generally unsatisfying.

(Source: zobb)


the most important thing to me ever is bi kids knowing that it’s ok to be 10% attracted to women and 90% attracted to men or 10% attracted to men and 90% attracted to women and still feeling ok to identify as bi, and still feeling like their identity is valid, and still feeling like they can lead fulfilling lives with both (or other) genders. like that’s just so fricking important.