It is okay for your asexuality and/or aromantism to have been caused by or magnified by abuse.
Your identity is still valid.
There is nothing wrong with you.
Allo allies: yes, not all aro/ace people were affected this way by abuse but please stop ignoring those who were.
cultural appropriation is putting fireflies in a jar
and letting them light up your bedroom
as you drift off to sleep.
and when you wake up all the lights have flickered out
but only when you’re older do you realize
you slowly suffocated them so
that you could enjoy their glow.
that just knocked the breath from me
teenage girls are reminded constantly by adults (and everyone else) that we’re immature and too young to understand anything but the minute we make a mistake those same adults tell us we’re “old enough to know better” and refuse to help us
christmas eve what about christmas adam
happy christmas adam to all men’s rights activists
Please stop pestering us with things like this. This has nothing to do with men fighting for their rights. Eve is short for ‘evening’. Please don’t turn activism into a joke. Thanks.
Someone isn’t having a good christmas adam
Christmas Adam: December 23rd. Comes before Christmas Eve and is generally unsatisfying.
the most important thing to me ever is bi kids knowing that it’s ok to be 10% attracted to women and 90% attracted to men or 10% attracted to men and 90% attracted to women and still feeling ok to identify as bi, and still feeling like their identity is valid, and still feeling like they can lead fulfilling lives with both (or other) genders. like that’s just so fricking important.