When a trans person tells you it’s okay for mistakenly using the wrong name or pronouns, it means the instance is forgiven or dismissed and the conversation can move on. In reality, it still hurts but we say it’s okay because we understand you are making an effort to get it right. This is not an invitation to stop making that effort. You are not the exclusion to the rule.


attn social justice bloggers: stop using empathy to mean “basic human decency”. ppl can have low empathy and still be moral and compassionate and good, and if the only thing keeping you from being completely morally bankrupt is that it would make you feel bad, you’re probably not so upstanding yourself.

(Source: chutzpadik)


friendly reminder that my inbox is always open for you to tell me if you need me to tag anything in particular

maributerfly replied to your post: this week has been REALLY stressful to…

:( *hugs*

thanks darling *hugs back*

how are you??

this week has been REALLY stressful to say the least. fucking university. fucking assignments. fucking classmates. fuck everything.

but i’ve survived it without killing someone so that must be a good sign.

Character TropesAlex Blake (Requested by obsessive-compulsions)


I’m sorry, but if lesbians can control themselves in a girls only changing room with ass naked woman waltzing around. Then I figure men should be able to control them selves with clothed girls walking down the street. Just a thought.


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